Here is a list of material I would suggest you take the time to check out.

Marital/Divorce

• The Good Divorce: Keeping Your Family Together When Your Marriage Falls Part – Constance Ahrons, PhD
• Collaborative Divorce – Tesler and Thompson
• Collaborative Way to Divorce – Webb and Ousky
• Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work – John Gottman
• Getting The Love You Want – Harville Hendrix
• Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most – Douglas Stone
• Getting To Yes: Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In – Fisher and Ury

Divorce and Children

• How To Survive Your Parent’s Divorce – Nancy O’Keefe Bolick
• Growing up Divorced – Linda Bird Franks
• The Parents’ Book About Divorce – Dr. Richard Gardner
• The Best Parent is Both Parents – David Levy
• Helping Your Kids Cope With Divorce the Sandcastle Way – Gary Neuman
• Mom’s House, Dad’s House –Isolina Ricci
• What Children Learn From Their Parents’ Marriage – Judith Siegal
• The Truth about Children and Divorce – Robert Emory
• The Divorce Book for Parents – Vicki Lansky
• What About the Kids? Raising Your Child Before, During and After the Divorce – Judith Wallerstein
• Why Did You Have to Get a Divorce – Anthony Wolf

Childrens’ Booklist about Divorce

• Grover’s Bad, Awful Day – A. Dickson
• When Emily Woke Up Angry – R. Duncan
• Little Miss Bossy, Little Miss Chatterbox – R. Hargreaves
• Mr Worry, Mr Noisy – R. Hargreaves
• I Was So Mad – Mayer
• Feelings – J.B Murphy
• Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day – J Viorst
• Dinosaurs Divorce – L. Brown and Marc Brown
• My Family’s Changing – Pat Thomas
• When Mom and Dad Divorce – Emily Menendez-Aponte
• It’s Not Your Fault, Koko Bear – Vicki Lansky

Psychology/Internal Work

• Full Catastrophe Living – Jon Kabat Zinn
• Thoughts Without a Thinker – Mark Epstein, M.D.
• Going to Pieces Without Falling Apart – Mark Epstein, M.D.
• Taking the War Out of Our Words – Sharon Strand Ellison
• Beyond Reason – Daniel Shapiro
• The Power of Focusing – Ann Weiser Cornell, PhD
• Falling Awake – Albert Ellis
• The Poetry of Mary Oliver
• Off To Sea: A Romance – Richard Stine
• The Family Contract – Howard Leftin, M.D.
• The Parents Tao Te Ching – William Martin
• Refrigerator Rights: Why we need to let people in our lives, our homes (and our Refrigerators) – Dr Will Miller
• When Things Fall Apart; Heart Advice for Difficult Times – Pema Chodron
• The Places That Scare You: A Guide to Fearlessness in Difficult Times – Pema Chodron
• The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self – Alice Miller
• The Courage to Heal: A Guide for Women Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse – Ellen Bass and Laura Davis
• EMDR: The Breakthrough “Eye Movement” Therapy for Overcoming Anxiety, Stress and Trauma – Francine Shapiro
• The Mindful Way Through Depression – Zindel Segel
• The Four Agreements- Don Miguel Ruiz